Please don’t judge me by my age. I became mature at 4 years old due to my life circumstances. Anyway, I’m a 20 years old girl from U.P. I graduated last year, and while preparing for my government exam, I met a boy in my library. He’s from Bihar, but his family lives in U.P. He belongs to the General category, and I’m from OBC. We were friends for the first 7 months, and in the last month, we entered a relationship. We share similar hobbies and personalities; in a way, we complete each other.
According to astrology, I was 4, and he was 7, meaning Rahu Ketu, for those who understand. We both had an extraordinary level of trust in each other, and we were deeply invested in solid interests like careers, sports, science, astronomy, reading, nature, music, movies, and deep conversations. Later, he said marriage wasn’t possible because of cultural and caste differences. I realized that a temporary relationship wasn’t for me; the thought of him marrying someone else hurt too much.
He insisted he didn’t want to leave me and wanted us to be together until one of us got married. However, I believe in a permanent relationship that leads to marriage, not something casual. We parted ways long ago, and I’m healed now. Although, healing feels irrelevant since every relationship in my life whether with siblings, parents, friends, or relatives has caused me pain. Sometimes, I want someone by my side whom I can support as well. But reading other confessions breaks my heart. Why do honest people get cheated in some way?
If you don’t want to get married, at least don’t manipulate someone who wants a genuine connection. I’ve started to enjoy my own company since I can’t trust anyone in this world except for animals and nature. I live in an aspirant area, and people often approach me because of my magnetic personality (or so they say). But I’m not interested, as I know they only want one thing. I truly want someone in my life who loves life and nature.
My question: Why did God make limited editions of people like us, and why is it so hard to find them?
Love doesn’t take 7 months to happen
Those 7 months of friendship was the reason for the relationship
People in friendship are not the same in relationship
Never ever get into a relationship if you were friends for more than a month