Hi Admin. Please post this confession. I want this to reach every girl. I am working women. I met a guy through mutual friends and started dating. Slowly after we started talking he used to ask me to send some of my snaps. Initially I was hesitant and told him that I’m not comfortable sharing but he was so reclutant and got angry bcz I’m not sending any snaps. Later we had same discussion about snaps and finally I decided to send some. Then he started asking for nudes. This time I don’t want to.
Again we had arguments and he stopped talking with me for few days later I started conversation and we patched up. Every single time he asks my pics saying he would take care if anything goes wrong. And one day he was insisting me for physical intimacy. I clearly told him that we are not doing anything until we get engaged. Again same story discussions, arguments. Finally u gave up thinking he’s the one for me and I’m in love with him. He did assure me that he would take care if anything happens.
I did trust him. He made all the promises like everyone that he’s gonna be best husband, wouldn’t leave me at any cost. Later the next month got to know I was pregnant. Now the real drama and his true character came out. I told him let’s get married. You know what he said? He: I want to get married only for the reason of love, not for any other reason” I was shocked. And asked him what all happened between us ? Was it not love ?? Since then he started ghosting me and not properly replying my messages. He simply told me to get aborted.
I asked him to come with me to the hospital. He doesn’t want to. I went alone got all the tests done. We had several discussions and arguments and finally he told that I’m not the one he wanted to marry and he wants someone more than me. I was devastated from his confessions. Then why was he acting all these days and giving fake promises ?? Was it only for nude pics and sex ?? I was admitted in the hospital bcz of serve bleeding and pain. I tried to reach out to him but he didn’t answer my calls saying he’s with family and can’t talk to me.
For a moment I was having suicidal thoughts. Why ?? Was it only sex with me? I clearly told him what i was looking for before dating. He knows everything and didn’t even think before ghosting me. I was bleeding continuously for more than a month. I had severe pain bcz of infection. Still recovering from all the trauma I went. I didn’t had a single day without crying. I don’t even know why I’m living ? For what ?
I can’t bear this pain. Why do guys do this? If you don’t have the guts to take responsibility, you shouldn’t touch a girl. If it’s only for sex then they are other options outside where no one would question you.
Why to do all these ?? Maybe it was my mistake too. Maybe I would have broke up with him initially when he was arguing for pics, I wouldn’t be in this situation today. Every single day the pain I’m undergoing, bleeding, infections and tablets for those. Literally I’m living in hell. I wish no girl should undergo what I’m being. Please girls choose wisely – The man who would ask for nude pics or the man who would be with you when you are sick !!!!