I recently discovered disturbing details about my Bhabhi’s (brother’s wife) past, and I’m feeling deeply disgusted. Every time I see her, I feel intense hate, anger, and disgust. I’m torn about whether to tell my brother the truth about her or not. I desperately want him to know what kind of woman he married, but I’m afraid it could destroy their happy marriage. If they separate, I worry my brother will suffer more due to the women favoring judiciary system.
One fake case from her and our whole family will be ruined. Also, people from her *mayka* are very good. Her brother has literally become my best friend here in Pune. Her mother takes care of me like her own child. Their family is very *bholi bhali* (naive). She took advantage of her parents’ naivety. She’s two months pregnant now, and this feels like my only chance to speak up, as they could still abort the baby.
Once the baby is born, separation will be harder and could harm both the child and my brother. I’m in my 4th year of engineering college, living in Pune for my studies, away from my hometown. My bhabhi’s parental home is also in Pune, just 1 to 2 km from my rented room, which I took with the help of her brothers. Over the past four years, I’ve made friends in her neighborhood who shared shocking and disgusting things about her past.
I learned from a friend who works at the small finance bank where she used to work as a loan collector that she and a colleague would work only 2 to 3 hours in the morning for loan collections. From 1 to 2 p.m. until night, they would book a room at a hotel owned by her colleague’s relative and have sex all day. This happened daily, even on Sundays, for years. After leaving that job, she began an affair with the bank manager, who promoted her.
She stopped doing any real work and was allegedly just the manager’s “sex toy.” They would stay in the office after hours, from 5 to 6 p.m. until 8 to 9 p.m., having sex daily. I also heard she had an affair with another colleague before these two. How shameless can a person be to have affairs with three people in an office of just 9 to 10 employees? To double check this claim, I also befriended two other people from her office a watchman and an ex colleague.
They also told the same story. The watchman even told me about her hundreds of intimate videos from the manager’s mobile. Imagine having your wife’s nude videos on someone else’s phone. Friends from her college days and an old boyfriend from her neighborhood told me similar disturbing stories about her past. Her old boyfriend told me about how he used to go to her home when everyone was asleep.
My father fell ill when we were young, and my brother worked hard to lift our middle class family to a financially stable life. My Bhabhi seems caring, takes good care of our family and home, and their marriage appears very happy. I used to love her a lot and was thrilled for them, but learning about her past after moving near her parental home has completely changed my perception.
Now, every time I visit home on Sundays, I feel intense disgust and rage when I see her. I don’t understand why some women behave like this. Should I tell my brother the truth or stay silent? Please guide me. I’m very confused.
Question: Should I tell my brother?
Option 1: Yes, tell him
Option 2: No, don’t tell him. Keep it as a secret
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