I have been married for 5 and a half years. My husband is the most loving and caring person that I have ever known. He cares for me, he cares for my son, and he does everything, even more than everything, for us, for my son, me, and my family. But after the birth of my son, physical intimacy between us is almost zero. We are intimate once or twice a year at most, and that happens only when I ask him continuously.
A few days ago, I asked him, and he said he doesn’t want to do that, as it’s not his priority at all and he is not interested at this time. It hurts me to the core. What do I do? We are both loyal to each other, and he is the most honest person I have ever known. He has never hidden anything from me, and he has never lied to me, but this thing is making me hate myself. I have asked him many times, but nothing changes. And we are both good looking. I don’t know what to do.