I’m a 30-year-old man. I’m well settled, have a well-maintained physique, and have a funny and easy-going personality. I have a girlfriend whom I’m planning to marry next year. We have gone through a lot of struggles together because we are from different castes, but we have decided to move forward and get married. There is one thing that has been bothering me. I had a previous relationship where I was very comfortable with foreplay, but somehow I couldn’t penetrate my girlfriend.
Even now, last month, my current girlfriend and I got a chance to have sex, but again, I couldn’t penetrate her. She seems completely okay with it, and I have also discussed this openly with her. She told me that she is okay even if it doesn’t happen. I have consulted a doctor, and he said there is no physical or physiological problem with me. Still, I’m starting to doubt myself and worry about whether something is wrong with me.
I’m scared that I might not be able to satisfy my future wife, even though I really love her and want things to work between us. I would really appreciate some suggestions or advice on what I can do.