In 2015, I began a relationship with my girlfriend, but in 2016, I discovered she was cheating on me because she already had a boyfriend. Despite this, I forgave her due to my deep love for her. Unfortunately, her behavior didn’t support me, and in 2017, I ended our relationship out of frustration. In 2019, she expressed that she missed me, and we started talking again, eventually reuniting.
However, she cheated on me again in 2021 when I found pictures of her with her ex at a hotel. When confronted, she denied everything, but I wasn’t convinced. The repeated cheating and frustration led me to verbally abuse her, and she blocked me, ending our relationship once again. In December 2024, she called me, and we started talking daily.
Although I knew she initially sought casual conversation, she insisted she was serious and had changed, claiming to truly love me. She revealed she was already in a relationship with someone for 4 to 5 months but claimed there was no emotional connection and they were just discussing marriage. After two months, we fought because her partner would sometimes stay at her place.
She assured me nothing physical was happening and that she was ending it. This situation repeated, and in February 2025, we fought again. She suddenly declared she didn’t want to continue our relationship and blocked me. Ten years have passed, and she continues to lie and cheat. She claims I’m the love of her life and has wished me a happy birthday every year, even when we weren’t together.
She calls every 2 to 3 months, but I haven’t reciprocated. Her actions contradict her words. She says I’m the only one she loves, but how can someone cheat on and hurt the person they claim to love? I believe she faked her feelings, emotions, love, and care. How can someone maintain this facade for so long? What are her genuine feelings for me? If she doesn’t love me, why has she consistently told me otherwise?
Question: How can someone do so much wrong even after showing so much emotion and feeling and knowing that she’s the love of my life? Did she ever really love me, or was it all fake?
Option 1: Ask her why she did all of that
Option 2: Just leave and move on
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