I got a friend request from a guy on Snapchat and I added him. We introduced ourselves he seemed to be a humorous and kind person at first, and then we started talking regularly. He used to tell me about his family, friends, and other life experiences, and he also confessed that he wanted to be in a romantic relationship with me. But I denied his confession because my career was more important, and I was happy even without a relationship.
But then he started making fun of me and my career choices because I didn’t want any romantic relationship with anyone. Then he said sorry for everything and convinced me to stay just friends with him. I thought I should be his friend because he used to write sad poems, and I liked his poetry and his way of expressing thoughts. Then he used to talk about various things, but most of the time he talked about sex and relationships.
He started expressing his desires. I used to listen to him but didn’t pay attention to his negative talks, though he talked about good things too. I used to see all the good qualities in him because I thought he would be a good person. Sometimes I felt like he was a good human, and sometimes he totally behaved like a psychopath. In a few weeks, our bond started getting stronger, but then he started involving me in things I didn’t like.
He used to sex chat daily, and whenever I got angry about these things, he demanded a proper explanation for why I was angry at him and why I replied to him late. After arguing about these things, he used to confess that he would support me and never leave me at any cost, but I didn’t feel like his intentions were good because he crossed my boundaries. He used to convince me and sometimes even force me into sex chats, and even after refusing so many times, he still tried to force me into intimacy.
I hated him when he made comments like “you are too childish,” “you dream about your future too much,” “some things aren’t possible.” I hated all these kinds of conversations, but I always tried to see all the good things in him and kept ignoring his negativity. Finally, we had a heated argument. One night, he forced me to involve in a sex chat with him. I strongly opposed this and told him why can’t he stay in his limits.
Then he started saying that he wants incest sex and brutal sex. I got furious and wanted to punch him on the spot, but I couldn’t because I never met him in real life. I started scolding him for his actions and disrespectful behavior towards me and told him that I wanted to be respected in a proper way. But he still didn’t listen to me and started saying that one day he would meet me alone and take me to a hotel room and force me to be intimate with him.
He wanted to do brutal sex and sexual things with me because I refused his confession. Then he started asking about my age, but I didn’t respond this time. He started making negative comments about my body. I didn’t tolerate this kind of disrespect and reported and blocked him on the spot. Then, after a few months, he came back with a new account and added me again on Snapchat, but this time I didn’t accept his request.
Question: Should I give him another chance?
Option 1: Yes
Option 2: No
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