I’m a 26 year old unmarried girl. I live in a different city for work, and back in 2022, I met a guy online. We’re from different religions, but we instantly clicked and began talking regularly sometimes for hours. He was clear from the start that he didn’t believe in love, but I enjoyed our conversations and gradually started liking him more than I expected. After a few months, we met in person and ended up having sex. That moment changed everything for me, I got emotionally attached.
He, on the other hand, never really reciprocated those feelings. Between 2022 and 2024, we met around 9 or 10 times, and each time, we ended up sleeping together. But after every meeting, he would just disappear no calls, no texts, not even to check how I was doing. I confronted him multiple times and told him I had feelings for him, but he always denied feeling the same. To make things worse, he started asking for my friends’ numbers, wanting to be introduced to them. I did it, hoping maybe he’d value me more.
Instead, he focused on them and ignored me completely. That hurt me deeply. Eventually, I decided to cut him off from my life. Months later, he reached out saying he wanted closure. I wasn’t emotionally ready, but my feelings made me agree to meet him. He wanted to have sex again, but I refused and walked away. Since then, I’ve blocked him everywhere. It’s been 8 to 9 months, and he hasn’t tried to reach out even once to ask how I am.
I still carry the hurt… and yes, some feelings too. But I haven’t tried contacting him. If he ever comes back again should I talk to him? Or is it finally time to move on?