Hey! I’ve been with this guy and he is 33 years male and we are dating from last 1 year. He’s a caring and nice human being, and I’ve loved him all along. But at the same time, he gets irritated easily and switches quickly from cool to chik-chik mode. Yeah, he orders myfavourite dessert anytime, but he didn’t get me any Valentine’s gift.
Cutting short, there is another guy and he is 37 years male. He met me a year ago, but we didn’t connect. A few months later, he showed up at my chamber and it turns out he is a school-time buddy of my senior. He confessed to me a few months back that he loves me and has been trying to find me since the day he saw me last year.
Now this guy is extremely caring and rich. Also, he’s the kind of guy who has great influence over the city and holds decent power over big personalities. He’s respected by everyone, and even though he’s not a government person, all the IAS and IPS officers revolve around him. He’s quite powerful, to be honest. The thing is, he loves me genuinely and it’s evident.
He has never made me uncomfortable, nor has he ever laid a finger on me. He respects me deeply, is caring in an extreme manner, and only wants to marry me.
Points of concern:
1. He’s a virgin at 37, which worries me about my sexual life.
2. I am afraid of being caught in a “Sone ka pinjra.”
3. I am currently struggling in my career, and with him, my career will instantly take flight.
4. He’s my height, which makes me skeptical if I’ll look good with him. Plus, I don’t have that kind of physical attraction towards him, as we’ve never been in that zone, nor has he escalated anything like that anyway.
5. I am not after his money but the influence he exercises, and that too he genuinely loves me and only wants the best for me.
6. The guy I am dating right now owns a company and earns a decent amount of money.
7. He is first a friend to me, then a boyfriend.
8. He also wants to settle with me but wants to stay here with his family, whereas I am still in the budding age of my career and I may or surely have to move one day or the other.
9. Lately, I don’t feel from his side that he wants to do something special for me or wants me to feel special. I mean, he doesn’t have that kind of thought process like “I want my woman to have this, and I want to do this for her.”
10. I am extremely confused. (PS: In case you are wondering, I am dating two. To clarify, I am only dating the first guy I mentioned. The other one just appeared out of the blue and is showering everything on me.)
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