Hi, I am here to share my story just to motivate those people who are struggling to move on. I’ve been reading stories here where every other person is blaming someone (this is what I feel, although I could be wrong). Until now, I never believed in karma or destiny, but where life has brought me has changed my perspective. I had a relationship of 8 years.
I was loyal, supportive in every possible way, and loved him with all my heart. But what did I get in return? I got cheated on. Like so many other males, he had the audacity to say, “It was a mistake.” But for me, cheating means you’re going to lose me. I closed all the doors for him the day I got to know about his unforgettable, unforgivable mistake. I decided to give up on my life yes, I had thoughts of suicide.
I think it was a miracle that I survived (biggest mistake of my life). Anyway, after crying for countless days, for the sake of my parents, I made up my mind to get married. (Whereas after a lot of drama, I succeeded in convincing my parents not to force me into marriage.) Here is the turning point of my life. Around 3 years ago, I moved to Canada (just after my breakup). I had a friend who used to like me but never confessed his feelings.
He is 30 now. Out of nowhere, one day he texted me to ask what’s going on, and we started talking. He was aware of my relationship, but I had never told anyone about my breakup. Just to tease me, he asked me about my ex, and he was the first person I ever shared everything with. That day, he made a phone call to me for the first time and literally consoled me.
I used to feel so heavy, and that was the day I cried like a child on a call with him. A few weeks later, he told me about the feelings he had for me back in college. The best thing he didn’t ask me for a relationship. He straightaway told his parents about me (that he likes a girl and wants to marry her if they are okay with it) because he didn’t want me to suffer the same thing again.
Luckily, his parents said yes, and then he proposed to me for marriage. This is all I ever wanted from my man. Initially, I had no feelings for him, but his love, care, obsession, and fear of losing me were enough to grow my love. Now we are engaged and preparing for our great day. That day, I realized it was all written in destiny. He had to be my life partner, and I had to suffer the pain of a breakup or maybe even more.
People who are struggling to move on just need to trust the Almighty God. It took me 3 years to move on, and now I don’t blame him for cheating. If he hadn’t done it, I might have been married to someone else or to him. What I feel is that my ex was just a reason to stop me from being married earlier so I could meet my current man at the right time.
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