I’ve married a man who behaves like a child who doesn’t even know how to live or love independently without his father’s advice on everything. In the first month, I showed him all the love, but gradually I began to see the selfishness in him. Eventually, I couldn’t even stand him. He’s the most insecure person I have ever met, and it leads him to lie about everything. He’s so selfish and doesn’t care about me or my feelings.
We live in two different cities due to work and studies. Once I had an accident, and he didn’t even ask how I was, whether I got hurt nothing. When I asked him why he didn’t show concern, he replied, “It’s not a big deal, just a small scratch on the car.” Should I get a fracture for him to show affection and care? He doesn’t care when I’m sick. Doesn’t help financially. Doesn’t offer emotional support.
And the lying every word he speaks is a lie. When I confront him, he just apologizes and acts normal like nothing happened. This happens daily. He even lies to my friends and parents, claiming he’s done things for me things I struggled to achieve myself. At this point, everyone knows how pathetic he is. It’s like daily torture.
If we fight and I don’t speak for a day, I get calls from his parents to my parents. He even blackmails me, saying he’ll call my parents if I don’t talk to him. When I try to bring up any issue, he starts talking about divorce and threatens that he’ll tell my parents I was the one who wanted it. Whatever I speak with him about, he discusses with his parents. He can’t do a single thing without calling them and always speaks with them in private never in front of me.
He blames me for not showing love and complains about me to both his parents and mine. Always trying to pick fights. Always trying to assert superiority. I can’t live with him anymore. It’s like he can’t even bear to see me happy. I just want a divorce and to be at peace. But neither set of parents will support me. And this guy – he won’t let it happen my way. I don’t know what to do. Till now, I haven’t even said the word “divorce” because I’m scared of the lies he’ll spread about me to others.
Question: Divorce seems like the only option:
1: Yes
2: No
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