I have been married for 4 years, it’s a love cum arranged marriage. After 6 months of marriage, I got pregnant, and my husband sent me to my parents’ house. He didn’t give me a single penny for the entire 9 months, as I was on a career break during my pregnancy. My parents bore the complete expenses of my pregnancy and delivery.
When my daughter was 1.5 months old, I returned to my husband’s house, and from that moment, I saw the real face of my husband and in-laws. My father-in-law never gave any gift or showed affection to my daughter like a grandparent usually would. At that time, I was not earning, and my husband never gave any money for my daughter’s formula milk (as I had low breast milk) or for diapers.
My mother-in-law used to take my baby away from me and would only return her when she was hungry. My husband used to beat me whenever I asked for money for my daughter’s expenses, and all the in-laws would keep my daughter away so that my husband could beat me.
Eventually, I resumed my job when my daughter was only 4 months old, just for the money. Today, my daughter is 2.5 years old, and my husband has never contributed a single penny toward household expenses or my daughter’s needs. I feel like I am a single mother, and I’m even feeding my husband.
My in-laws haven’t given even ₹10 to my daughter to date. My husband and I are currently living at my parents’ house because I was not safe at my in-laws’ place. My husband agreed to move in with my parents because he knew he wouldn’t have to spend anything while staying there.
Apart from the financial issues, he is never emotionally available. He never considers what I’m going through. The last time we had a physical relationship was when I got pregnant. After seeing his true colors, I completely stopped all forms of physical intimacy, as he has physically, mentally, and verbally abused me. He contributes nothing toward our daughter, household, or me.
He is never emotionally present for me. I am not a prostitute to allow him to touch me after enduring all this. I have asked for a divorce many times, but he refuses because he doesn’t want to expose his dark side to society. At present, I hate him with every fiber of my being. There are no normal conversations between us only fights whenever we talk. It feels like my life is completely over. I am only breathing for my daughter.
Question: Is it mandatory to have sex with a husband who is emotionally, financially unavailable and abuses me physically, verbally, and mentally?
Option 1: No
Option 2: Yes
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