Met a girl online two years back. She was a year younger than me. At first, she told me that she was single. We started talking and fell for each other. Our vibes, likes and dislikes, and sense of humor matched with each other. Then one day, I got to know that she was already in a very toxic relationship with a rich guy. Both of their families know each other and also approve of their relationship.
She told me that she was going to break up with him once he got a job outside the city or if somehow she managed to move out of the city. According to her, if she tried to break up with him while still in the same city, he would create a scene and that would embarrass both her and her family. But they haven’t broken up yet, because the guy got a job in the same city, and she was also employed by a government agency in the same city.
I know she loves me and does not love that toxic guy. I have been waiting for the last two years for her to break up with him. She has always pleaded for some more time. Recently, a few of her friends started teasing her with one of her school crushes with whom she hasn’t had any contact since leaving school. She didn’t like that and told me about it. I suggested she warn her friends seriously not to do that.
She did, but they didn’t stop completely. Then one day, during a slip of the tongue, she unintentionally let it slip (about the teasing, not about me) to her toxic boyfriend. He called her friends and verbally abused them. As a result, her friends abandoned her, and now nobody talks to her. Now she tells me that if she breaks up with him, her friends will laugh at her, and it will seem like they were right while teasing her with the other guy.
Her toxic boyfriend will also get the upper hand by blaming her in front of their families. I stopped calling her. She secretly calls me and cries sometimes. Even now, she keeps pleading with me to wait a little longer. I really feel bad for her. But at the same time, I feel this entire situation has devastated my emotional well being.
Question: What should I do?
Option 1: Cease all contact with her
Option 2: Wait for some more time
Option 3: Give her a time limit to break up with him
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