I am a 22 years old MBBS student, and she is a 20 years old nursing student. We met on Telegram and are currently in a long-distance relationship. Initially, as an introvert, I was just looking for a girlfriend. We talked a lot, and we both fell in love with each other. We shared WhatsApp, Instagram, and everything else. We are like minded, and she is the purest, most innocent girl. She listens to me and cares for me. However, I have never wanted to marry a nurse; I prefer someone who is at least on my level.
I have a growth mindset and told her to prepare for competitive exams. I asked her to give me something worth presenting to my parents, so they would see her as having a higher social status, as they will likely disapprove of our relationship. I want to help her grow in her career and am ready to support her, but she refuses to put in the effort. She says she is comfortable in her field and position. She has left and blocked me several times, telling me that if we don’t have a future, we shouldn’t talk.
Yet, I always manage to convince her to come back. I am committed to fighting for her, and she is deeply in love with me, as I am with her. But her being a nurse stresses me out because I have worked hard to get where I am and feel I deserve better. She deserves even better than me, but I can’t let her go; she is the girl of my dreams. She trusts me immensely. Please tell me what I should do now. She is the greenest flag I have ever seen. We are even planning to meet this October.
Should I meet her, considering she might fall for me more? I feel ashamed for not wanting to marry a nurse, but she possesses every quality I want in a woman. It has been 5 months now. Please help I request you all.