She kept her abusive ex in her life because of his daughter. Let me tell you, that man wasn’t just toxic he was downright dangerous. She told me so many stories of emotional abuse, his possessiveness, and how he treated her like his personal property. This was happening while I was in her life, and even when she was dating other men. And guess what? This guy even threatened me! One night, he actually stalked her while she was out, took her phone, and sent me threatening messages. He had gone through her phone before and found all my details.
I told her time and again that she was in danger with him, but she never listened. That night, when I lost contact with her, I didn’t even know if she was safe. I was so worried that I called the police for a wellness check and even contacted her family members, fearing the worst. His texts weren’t just threatening they were filled with pure rage. He threatened me, my kids, and even my ex, saying he was watching me and giving a location near my house!
When the police checked, they found him at her house, and they said both of them were fine. The next day, she called the police herself and claimed there was no issue with him at all! Can you believe that? After all this, she ghosted and blocked me! And this was just after she told me she was falling in love with me and missed me terribly the day before. Unbelievable. All I ever wanted was to keep her safe from this horrible, disgusting man who had zero integrity.
If her life is better without me, then so be it. But I was the one who showed empathy and care, while she kept putting herself in danger again and again. She refused to cut ties with him and his daughter, even though he crossed every boundary I set. But somehow, I’m the one who gets ghosted and blocked? And not once did she take any responsibility for what happened.