When I was in university, I was in a relationship with a guy who was abusive and only there for sex. I broke up with him within 3 months and never looked back. After 5 years, I met a guy through my parents who was well spoken, good looking, and everything I ever wanted. I instantly fell in love with him. He took me on dates, my family liked him so much.
After 4 dates like movies, dinners, he asked me whether I was interested in going on a long drive. I instantly said yes. We always went out in his car, but for the first time, he picked me up on a bike. He told me he always wanted to go out on a ride like this. He was so happy. We talked a lot and suddenly he asked me if it was my first time going on a ride like this. I didn’t want to lie, so I told him it was not my first time and that I previously had a boyfriend.
He had asked me if I was ever in a relationship during our first meeting, but we were at my house and they had come to see me, so I lied and said I was never in a relationship. He did not speak for some time. I apologized, but he didn’t say anything. When I told him sorry again, he asked me everything about my previous relationship. After that, we didn’t talk. We reached a small hill, and he said he wanted to take his future wife to places like this and travel around with her.
I said it was great, but he was no longer excited or interested. He said we should leave. I apologized again. He told me he has never been in a relationship and he wants someone like that. He asked me to tell my parents that he was no longer interested in me. I apologized and told him I would do anything for him, but he didn’t want to listen.
After being in an abusive relationship, everything he did every date, care, attention, love that I never felt before gave me hope that I would finally be happy with someone. But now I feel empty. He told me I will find someone who will accept me for what I am, just not him. I don’t know what to tell my parents or myself. I know many people want to be the first and last for their partners, but I can’t change my past. I love him so much and I don’t know what to do.
Question: Should I inform my parents and move on?
Option 1: Yes
Option 2: No
Option 3: Talk with him and make him understand
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