I met this guy in a community where I am a member. We talked for about four months, built a solid bond, and seemed to understand each other. It felt like he might be the one, so when he proposed, I said yes. We’ve now been in a relationship for ten months. The first four months were great everything felt perfect. But soon after, things took a turn for the worse.
With both of us working, finding time for each other was tough, but we managed somehow. However, after a while, things started happening that were simply unacceptable, no matter the excuse. He began telling me stories that left me shaken. For instance, he once mentioned that during a trip, a woman slept in his bed though he emphasized he didn’t do anything.
I found it strange that he felt the need to tell me this. Then came something worse. He confessed to chatting with a girl, and their conversation escalated to the point where she sent him nudes. And he had the audacity to defend himself, saying, “At least I told you.” Like, really? That’s supposed to make me feel better? Oh, great, I’m so glad to know what my partner is up to doesn’t matter if it’s basically cheating, right?
And yeah, they even engaged in sexting. He said that since she messaged, he felt obligated to respond. The fact that he casually admitted all this made it even more painful. Now, he’s even started teasing me with inappropriate comments, crossing boundaries over and over again. But whenever I try to talk to him about something serious whether it’s about my stress or something important.
He just responds in a double meaning way. Instead of having a real, understanding conversation, he always turns it into something ridiculous. During a particularly rough period, I consulted a psychologist and sought therapy for stress and anxiety. During that time, he was mostly absent. I informed him about it he saw my messages and left them on seen.
He wouldn’t pick up my calls or respond to my messages, leaving me to deal with my struggles alone. While I was going through one of the hardest times of my life, my partner was nowhere to be found for support. Finally, I had enough and gave him an ultimatum. I told him I couldn’t continue in this relationship anymore and that I was ending it. He started begging me not to leave him
But at the same time, he was chatting happily with other girls in the WhatsApp group of our community, laughing and flirting like nothing had happened. He’s still spamming me, pleading for another chance, but honestly, he doesn’t deserve it. Yet, there’s still a part of me, a soft spot and that’s where I’m stuck knowing I need to leave but still feeling conflicted and struggling to get over this.
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