I met him when I was 16. He said he loved me and would die if I said no to him. We are family friends, and our parents know each other. He started dating when I was 16, and then initially he was very nice and loving. After some time again, he manipulated me and said that he wanted to have sex with me. I said no to him then he again said that he would commit suicide and his parents would find me and my parents I would go to jail.
If I do whatever he says, then everything is working well and our relationship is going well. I was too young to understand that thing. He cheated on me while doing flirty chat with my sister, and I caught him. Then he said they were both doing it for fun to make me jealous. After that, I did my college. He was so toxic he didn’t allow me to talk to anyone, even my parents sometimes.
I don’t allow using WhatsApp either. He is saying he loves me and wants to marry me. I was hoping that he would become a good person. After all, somehow I managed to save our 6 years relationship. Then I go to a different city to pursue my master then things get worse. He started by asking for nudes and videos of me. He said, I love you, and since it’s a long distance thing will then only. I sent it to him.
Then he started to threaten me with those photos and videos that he will send to my family if I will not marry him. He becomes more toxic, and every day he makes me cry. Why do you go there? Where do you go? What are you wearing every time? Your location should be on so he can see where I am. He doesn’t allow me to make girl friends either.
After 1 year, I get an courage, and I told him I will. Not married to you, do whatever you want to do. He said, Okay, don’t leave me alone. Even if you don’t want to marry me, please be connected with me. After some time he got to know that I have 1 male friend. He called and told my parents that he wants to marry me, and he said everything like we had sex where, when, and how.
My parents got so traumatized and asked me, and I said, We are not in agreement with this marriage even if you wanted They supported me, and we said no to him. Then he called every friend he has my Gmail, extracted every contact, and called my friends and office colleagues that I cheated on him with another guy, and he loved me so much we had sex even after I said no to him.
His parents are spreading the same news to other relatives about me. I was in depression for a long time, and then I recovered and started working.
Question: I did wrong with him for not marrying after 8 years relationship
Option 1: forgot him and focus on your life and career
Option 2: I did wrong with him i should merry him
Option 3: Tell everyone why you said no
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