Hey there! I’m a 23 years old male and a government employee with a good salary. In the year 2022, I got into a relationship with a girl who is one year older than me. Actually, I never asked her for love. She was the one who followed me, convinced me, and made me fall for her. Eventually, I did fall for her.
I thought she was genuine, as she used to be very possessive and showed a lot of love. She also gave me signs that she wanted a physical relationship, but I was very clear that only after marriage would I enter into a physical relationship. She agreed with that, and yet, we ended up being physical numerous times. She used to say I was wild in bed.
But I don’t know what suddenly changed. Due to a transfer, I had to move far away, leaving her behind, and all of a sudden, her behaviour changed. She wasn’t the same person anymore, and she stopped answering my calls. One day, she told me she was going to her parents’ house and wouldn’t be able to message or call for around 15 days.
She then blocked me on all social media accounts, and I believed her blindly. Then one day, a mutual friend of ours shared a photo from Instagram, She was in Kashmir! I was shocked. I started asking her friends and found out that she had gone there with another man, and they were staying in the same hotel.
Through our mutual friends, I got confirmation. I called her and asked why she cheated on me. All she said was that she liked my physical traits. What does that even mean? I was literally heartbroken. I had already introduced her to my family. And before this relationship, I never had sex with any girl even though I had multiple chances. I believed I shouldn’t cheat on my future wife.
Now, she’s happily living her life. But I was genuinely in love, that’s it. I wasn’t interested in just having sex. Even today, my parents ask me about her. Just to protect her reputation, I simply say I left her for some reasons.
Question: Should I tell my parents about her?
1. Yes
2. No
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