I went to a company for an internship, and there was a guy who saw me and started liking me. He found my Instagram Id somehow and sent me a request, but I didn’t accept it initially. This continued for a few days until I finally accepted. We started talking. He went out of his way to care for me, down to the smallest details. We lived in the same society, and he used that to get closer. Eventually, he confessed his feelings.
Over time, his efforts made me fall for him too. But I was clear. I wouldn’t enter into a relationship unless there was a possibility of a future. I told him straight: No marriage, no relationship. He agreed, admitted caste could be an issue, but assured me he’d handle it. Things were beautiful. He was supportive, loving, and everything I hoped for. Until… marriage talks started in his home. Within a week, he gave up.
He told me, “My family won’t agree,” and just like that, backed out. I told him, if you can’t go against your family, fine. But don’t marry someone else either. Let’s both stay unmarried. But he said yes to another girl in 20 days and started talking to her daily. When I confronted him, he said he was “under pressure” and was just getting to know her. Yet he claimed he still loved me.
I spiraled into depression for six months, desperately trying to hold things together, begging him to take a stand. But all he ever said was, “If only you were from the same caste.” One day, I messaged the girl’s brother anonymously. And what I found out shattered me. That guy had AGREED to the marriage himself and was going out of his way to woo her. Gifts, long chats, the works.
Meanwhile, he kept feeding me lies. When I confronted him with the truth, he didn’t just deny it, he yelled at me. He blamed me for “ruining his life,” used words I can’t even write here, and blocked me.
Question: Should I expose his lies to the girl’s brother and stop the marriage?
Option 1: Yes, tell her brother everything
Option 2: Just simply move on
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