So I’m 21 years female. In my college I’ve met a guy he’s of same age. I was so introverted that I used to barely talk to any boy in my class. All of sudden this guy started talking to me and texting me. He was pretending to be so nice, gentle and caring. He actually completely faked his personality just too use me. He was already in relationship with his girlfriend from last 3 years. Some fine day we bunked college and went out.
It was only 2 of us. He started touching inappropriately like he put his hand on my waist, while we were hanging all around that day. But then he never confessed me I was assuming him just as a friend. So fine day he confessed and I said yes because he cared a lot about me all the time, and he put me first in all things. I also introduced him to my family and all my friends knew him. My family was so welcoming towards him.
Somehow when he asked and convinced to get physical I agreed and we did it. I continued happening quite many time because it used to turn into a argument whenever I denied. So in order to avoid the conflicts I was unable to say NO. He said he’d introduce me to his family right after graduation. No one of his friends or family knew I was his Girlfriend. I kept it transparent in my friend circle that I’m taken and have a boyfriend.
But he kept it a secret from all. We used to make out sex every now or then like for at least 1 time a week. He was everything for me. I never even get a thought of other guy. I thought if not him no one else could be my husband. He someday without telling me anything got his VISA done and left to United States (US) all of sudden. I’ve spent a lot of my money on him like around 30k to 40k on him
Even at last moment while he was leaving I’ve transferred money and ordered food for him. He said he’d come back soon and asked to wait for him. Without him here in India it was so difficult. Our relationship started drifting apart when he moved. He stopped texting and calling all of sudden and he gave many useless reasons for not contacting. Some fine Day out he was dating other girl over there. It was so heartbreaking for me.
I’m still unable to digest that is it the same guy I’ve fell in love with? He came out off no where started cursing me for the first time when I questioned him louder, why can’t he make time for me. He just drifted apart all off sudden like I’m no one to him. He’s happy with other girl I guess. I’m living helpless over here in India. I don’t know how to move on and forget him. I don’t know what do I tell to my family when they ask about him.
After breaking up I came to know things which shocked me like everything he said about his ex were lies and he lied about many other things. While the only thing I did was being loyal to him.
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